Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Prayers Please
I just wanted to ask everyone if you could to remember my Papa in your prayers please. He has had Alzheimer's for the past 10 years now and is getting worse and worse everyday and forgetting stuff more and more. It is a very sad thing to watch someone go through that who used to care for you and play and talk with your whole life to walk in one day and him not know who you are. I can tell on a day to day basis whether he remembers me or not just by the look in his eyes and whether or not he gives me a hug or not. And luckily I am back home to where I can see him everyday, but I feel really bad for the family that does not live here and come down and he has no idea who they are anymore. He doesn't know who Clint is, or my kids, or anyone who is new ,to the family, within the past 5-10 years . His recent memory is horrible and the long term is slowly fading away. He sometimes doesn't remember why his 2 sons are paralyzed (they have been that way for about 25 years now), and has a couple of times not know who is own wife is. I hate this disease and the effects that it has on the loved ones around them. On a good note is that he is happy b/c he is in his own little world and doesn't know any different (which I guess is good for him) but is horrible especially for my granny who has to keep the car keys with her at all times so that he doesn't go wandering off, and having to repeat things over and over to him on a daily basis of stuff he forgets. The other day he asked about his mom and dad who have been dead for I don't even know how long- before I was even born. And he got sad when we told him that they had died. Its absolutely horrible- well now to add to it he went to the Dr. yesterday and they are pretty sure that he now has lung cancer. He has been sick for a few weeks now and they have thought that it was pneumonia at one time but now the fluid is around the outside of his lungs and the Dr. doesn't thinks that it is pretty bad. He goes in Friday for a PET scan and then for a biopsy of his lung to confirm it. My papa doesn't even remember going to the doctor- so I guess its good- but my granny is very upset about all of it. She told my mom "that this is the part of our lives that we are suppose to enjoy life with each other and look forward to dying and going to Heaven," but she is just worrying so much about him and that if something happens to her (because her health is not good either) that my papa won't know what to do. She takes such great care of him, but now she is having panic attacks, and she feels as though she is going to pass out all the time when she is out in public, b/c she worries about my Papa so much. She feels sick all the time in which now she is going to the Dr on Tuesday to get a scope done on her to see if it is something or just her nerves. So if you wouldn't mind putting her in your prayers as well. I will try to keep updates as I learn of them. But please keep them in your prayers and it will be most appreciated. Thank you.
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We will definitely be praying for him, Kristin! If you need anything at all, just let me know. I am going through the same thing right now (Alzheimer)with both of my Grandparents. It is really hard. Just know that you and Clint will be in our prayers as well. We love y'all.
I am very sorry to hear that it has gotten this bad. Your family will be in my prayers. It is always great to have a supportive family like yours during a time like this!!
Sarah
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